Being friendly is one thing but bonds take time to build. They’re either tired of putting in the effort for women they won’t see again or they are trying to help him bed you. His friends are dismissive or overly-friendly. He may have a dozen very good reasons for not telling you the truth, but how can you love – or even like – someone you cannot trust?Ĩ. Related: 10 Tell-Tale Signs He’s Cheatingħ. He talks about hurting other women: If he says he’s always failed women or has never met someone worthy of being monogamous with, run-for-your-life! You might be the most incredible woman on the planet but don’t go into a situation with a game-player expecting to be the game-changer.Ħ. He has a “reputation”: Leave your James Dean/Johnny Depp fantasies with your 16-year-old-self. You’re a grown, intelligent woman, you know when someone is acting strange.ĥ. Whatever it is, pay attention to your gut, use common sense and don’t argue with your intuition. It could be that he hides his phone or excuses himself to go to the bathroom when a text comes in oor he rushes you out of a bar without explanation. Maybe his phone is always dying or perhaps you give him a compliment and hear him repeat it to another woman right in front of you (true story). He’s “just looking” for someone to take out tomorrow night.Ĥ. But if he’s telling you there’s no one else and he’s “just looking”, don’t be naive. If he’s on Tinder, Match or any other dating site and there’s been no discussion of exclusivity, that’s fine. The current dating model tends to lend itself to the idea of entertaining more than one potential partner, but there’s a big difference between an honest guy looking to play the field and a dude who’s just looking play with your emotions. He claims to be exclusive but he’s still online. Worst case: He’s trying to say just enough to keep you hopeful but wants you to feel OK when he disappears. When things are great, he’s talking about taking you to weddings or meeting his parents, but then Thursday night comes around and suddenly he doesn’t know what he wants.
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